WHAT! HOW COME?
The same viewpoint, a hobby, a vacation, a dream house, even a view of your life in the future the same will eventually make you feel that there would be no more things that can be disputed. However, whatever the highest degree you and your spouse, certainly will face many problems of life that guarantee the same type, will not be completed if it is not accompanied by 4 technique. Relax, this is not like a drug that removes Tired, lackluster Fatigue although conflict can indeed make your relationship lackluster
Let's dig 4 technique carefully! Much deeper .. Much more in ..
Pour your heart and mind
Although you fit does not mean you are an expert partner telepathy! You can not just cranky or angry because your partner does not understand what you want (which in fact he did not understand because you do not tell). Try to say what you think, you feel, and what you want it to do to achieve a state of 'all excited'.
Listen
Sometimes we hear not to understand, but for retorting partner with our argument. Of course, this will trigger a scene. How come? equally you can not understand what each was going through because of busy will fill his own head. By listening, you can get two different angles story, your story and the story of your partner so that you will be easier to look for will be problems, even the solution.
Appreciate
Any bad circumstances, couples definitely have a need to be appreciated. Believe me, your partner need to be appreciated as easy or simple as given praise to be heard than to be given a surprise gift or excessive. With you appreciate, your partner will feel that they are loved and needed so that your relationship is more positive aura.
Support
The last stage you need to do is to support your partner's decision. In this context support does not mean a 100% said yes ! Support means to discuss and provide logical enter-enter your partner will encourage progress (by not ignoring previous). By doing so, your partner feel that you are indeed concerned about the progress of her and your relationship.
In essence, the match can not run if you do not cooperate. Both you and your partner have to work hard enough so that all your plans can be achieved.
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